Yes it’s very hard to Will yourself into being another person in isolation. But friends behavior is contagious. Surround yourself with people who you want to become, because you will become them!
Thank you for sharing. For me as someone who wants to live in a community and have friends and relationships it but have no experience or idea how this is very useful and insightful .
Oof the it doesn’t have to be fair in needs to be good is hard to swallow, but I can definitely see how it avoids score keeping and trying to level balances where they aren’t possible.
Great insight on changing the environment and context vs. changing the person. Both are technically possible, but one is much easier :)
Yes it’s very hard to Will yourself into being another person in isolation. But friends behavior is contagious. Surround yourself with people who you want to become, because you will become them!
Thank you for sharing. For me as someone who wants to live in a community and have friends and relationships it but have no experience or idea how this is very useful and insightful .
Oof the it doesn’t have to be fair in needs to be good is hard to swallow, but I can definitely see how it avoids score keeping and trying to level balances where they aren’t possible.
Really appreciated this and tried out extravagant offering of my time after i listened. I wanted to share a piece i just published on house sharing https://comment.org/everyone-wants-their-own-place/